Do you want to amplify positivity in your life? Here’s a personal story and a simple strategy that worked wonders for me.
Learning from a Positive Colleague
Years ago, I had a colleague who often encouraged himself with uplifting words. This memory became a turning point for me.
At the time, I was stuck in a cycle of self-deprecation, mistakenly believing it was a virtue. Breaking free felt impossible, but I desperately wanted to escape the pain it caused.
One day, I recalled that colleague—his habit of speaking positively to himself stood in stark contrast to how I treated myself.
It struck me: the difference between us was merely a choice of words. He chose kindness toward himself, while I chose harshness.
There isn’t one universal rule that dictates which choice is “correct.” Instead, the choice you make becomes your truth and your answer.
Shifting Toward Positive Words
At first, I hesitated to adopt positive language, feeling embarrassed and even guilty for trying. I clung to my self-critical patterns, convinced they defined me. But over time, the suffering they caused became unbearable.
That’s when I turned to journaling.
By confronting my unhealthy thoughts head-on and dealing with the pressures from negative influences around me, I started to reclaim a healthier mindset.
I began to consciously choose words of encouragement and self-compassion, just like my colleague had. Slowly but surely, this shift transformed my inner dialogue.
Now, I can’t imagine speaking to myself in a self-deprecating way.
The Fast Track to Amplifying Positivity
Here’s the simple technique I want to share: a quick and simple method I use to amplify positivity in my life.
I use free online fortune-telling tools.
You input your birthdate, and they generate a reading. While only parts are accessible for free, that’s all I need!
Whenever I come across a particularly positive prediction or phrase, I:
- Take a screenshot
- Write it down in my journal
Here’s the key: I only “choose” the positive results.
Why? Fortune-telling results vary depending on the source, so I focus on the ones I want to believe in. And honestly, choosing to believe in the good has often brought amazing outcomes into my life.
The Power of Positivity in Words
Saving uplifting words from these readings serves as a powerful source of energy for me. Seeing myself praised or positively evaluated helps me build a more favorable self-image over time.
I encourage you to try this too. Today, I used an online fortune-telling tool to consider my next steps in life. Several positive results stood out, and I’m now using them as a source of energy to shape my future.
This simple practice can bring a fresh perspective and help you focus on what truly matters: building a positive and empowered self.
Why not give it a try? You might be surprised at the impact it has on your mindset and life!
What do you think? Let me know if this resonates with you! 🌟
About Me: Hi, I’m Evolving Mind. Through this blog, I share my journey of self-discovery and mental well-being. Journaling has been a powerful tool for me, and I hope to inspire others to find their own path to peace and clarity.
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